Monday, April 30, 2012

Another Sunday Talk

Has it really been this long since I posted and since I gave a talk?


WAITING UPON THE LORD: THY WILL BE DONE

Good afternoon brothers and sisters.  I am grateful for this opportunity to speak to you today… Honestly!...  Giving a talk is truly a great opportunity to study a subject; to reflect upon it; to learn what the Lord wants you to learn and to share it with others.  Our subject, Waiting Upon the Lord, goes hand in hand with these thoughts because when we are sharing the gospel with others, we are “waiting upon the Lord.”  Sharing His message is what He would have us do.
The Savior, after spending some time in the Garden of Gethsemane, came unto his disciples and found them asleep.  He then said unto them “What, could ye not watch with me one hour?”  When we look at the 2000 years since the Savior was born and compare that to one hour, that one hour equates to about the life expectancy of man.  In essence, the Savior is asking us to watch with Him throughout our lives.  He is asking us to wait upon Him.  He is asking us to serve Him until the end.  What a great example, is Elder Hales in waiting upon the Lord.  Elder Hales, due to health issues, was unable to speak at the April 2011 conference.  However, in his 80th year, when most of us would be retired from our labors, does what it takes to continue serving the Lord in his capacity as an Apostle.  He has spoken at the last two conferences since that time even though he has had to do it from a chair and while on oxygen.  He is a great example of how all of us should be waiting upon the Lord.
It is not always easy or even desirable from a worldly or carnal viewpoint, to wait upon the Lord but that is part of our challenge or test here on earth; to overcome the flesh and to nourish the spirit instead.  In my backyard, there are two trees.  They are called Kentucky Coffee trees.  They grow a pod with beans in them that resemble coffee beans.  As a matter of fact, I have heard that in tough times, some people have actually used them as a substitute for coffee beans although they say it is a poor substitute.  I wouldn’t know…  If the trees in my backyard could speak, I would imagine all the other trees making fun of these two trees.  You see, right now, all of my trees have leafed out and put on their green coats.  However, the coffee trees are still devoid of any greenery.  I would even imagine that Williams, Nybos, and Smoots, whose yards are next to these trees, are wondering why I haven’t cut these dead trees down.  However, soon these trees will begin to put forth their leaves.  They are always the last to do so and they will be the first shed their foliage when winter approaches.  But when these trees are fully leafed out during the hottest months of the year, they are the most beautiful and they provide the most perfect cool shade to sit beneath.  Of all the trees in my yard, they are my favorite because they serve my needs the most both visually and physically.  I love my fruit trees but they are fickle unlike the coffee trees which are constant and will be throughout their lives and most likely mine.  These two trees follow perfectly the plan that the Lord set out for them.  They appear undesirable for a good part of the year but the rewards are great when they achieve their full potential each summer.
Elder Hales explains to us that the Savior began his ministry in the premortal existence by pledging his full support to our Heavenly Father’s plan.  He told our Heavenly Father, “Thy will be done, and the glory be thine forever.”  He came to earth and in his youth, he “went about His Father’s business.”  At the age of 30 He forsook a worldly life and eventually He suffered, He bled, and He died for us.  Certainly not a life that most of us would choose for ourselves but today He sits on the right hand side of our Heavenly Father in glory and good part of the world calls Him their Savior and professes love and honor for Him.
Our willingness to serve the Lord, even though most of us will never be called upon to do so, should extend to giving everything we have, even our lives if necessary.  One of the most inspiring stories from my family is that of my third great grandfather and grandmother, John and Ellen Parkinson.  They were of the earliest converts to the church in England.  As I research records, I find John waiting upon the Lord through missionary work in and around Preston, leaving his family for brief periods of time to serve mini-missions; helping to spread the gospel to his fellow countrymen.  It is obvious that John and his wife wished to serve the Lord.  They also wanted to follow the prophet’s desire that the saints come to Zion.  They saved their money; they then sold their successful shoe repair business to relocate to Utah with their nine children.  Unfortunately, they linked up with the Martin Handcart Company and all but four children perished.  John and Ellen gave up their lives to follow the prophet; to wait upon the Lord and to what end?  It was not an easy task that was asked of them but I am sure that they too sit on the right hand of our Lord and today there are thousands of faithful members who have descended from their four surviving children who may not have had the chance to be raised in the gospel had John and Ellen ignored the call to come to Utah.
Elder Hales states that he has often wondered why those who faithfully try to do the will of the Father are subject to trials and tribulations.  He says that as we ask these questions, we realize that the purpose of our life on earth is to grow, develop, and be strengthened through our own experiences and we do this by waiting upon the Lord.  He knows that no matter how difficult our circumstances, “all these things shall be for our experience, and our good.”
On the other hand, when we don’t wait upon the Lord by doing His will, consequences can follow.  I would like to illustrate this by comparing what happens when blueprints are not followed.  In the early 50s, a bridge was needed for the crossing of the Schoharie Creek not far from Albany, New York.  The engineering firm of Madigan-Hyland Consulting Engineers was hired to design the bridge.  Those who designed the bridged were schooled in the design of bridges and the external factors that affect them.  They had an understanding of what needed to be done to create a bridge that would last for a century or more.  One of the design features of the bridge was the foundation.  It called for excavating a hole, placing the concrete foundation in it and then backfilling that hole with large boulders called rip rap.  Rip rap will not erode away like dirt will under the forces of flowing water.  The contractor took a short-cut; he did not follow the plan and he backfilled the hole with erodible soil.  On top of that, he took out the sheet-piles that held the water out of the hole while the foundation was being built which left the erodible soil exposed to the forces of flowing water.  Rip rap was placed on the surface which for three decades helped to keep the soil beneath from eroding away however hurricane Irene caused an unusal heavy rainfall to rush down the creek.  This heavy flow was enough to get under the surface rip rap and erode away the soil that held the foundation and piers in place.  The result was that the bridge collapsed taking ten lives with it.
The Lord is the great architect or engineer of our lives here on earth and in the eternities.  We are the contractors that follow his design.  When we fail to follow the blueprints or we purposely decide to take shortcuts, we leave ourselves exposed to the elements around us.  We set ourselves up for collapse.  However, when we follow His plans, when we wait upon Him, we will not only be afforded the blessings that he has in store for us but we will also bless the lives of the many people who will cross our bridges that we have built in behalf of Him.
One of the great examples from the scriptures of obedience and of doing the Lord’s will is that of the Prophet Nephi.  After spending some time in the desert, moving away from Jerusalem, Lehi is commanded to send his sons back to Jerusalem to retrieve the brass plates.  Now, this was probably not an easy journey nor was it probably a safe journey as is evidenced by Sariah’s concern for her sons “for she had supposed that (they) had perished in the wilderness.”  Perhaps there were wild beasts or poisonous critters along the way.  Perhaps there was very little water and what little there was, was difficult to find.  Perhaps there were bandits or perhaps those who Lehi was warned about endangering their lives were out looking for them.  In any case, Sariah was sufficiently worried for their safety to temporarily lose sight of trusting in the Lord and making complaint to her husband Lehi.  I am sure that you mothers, today, can sympathize with Sariah as you send your sons and daughters all over the world to serve the Lord.  You fathers are not exempt, either, from these feelings.  I remember sending our oldest daughter, Casey, on her mission to Croatia.  It was not easy to see her go and it was not always without worry especially when she would write to us to tell us that the local “mafia” guy was watching out for her and her companion by telling others that they were “off limits.”  But, I trusted in the Lord and He does work in mysterious ways.  Back to Nephi, though, we can speculate that this was neither an easy task nor an easy journey.  He knew it would be difficult and he probably knew that Laban was a danger to him and his family.  However, when Lehi, his father, told him of the Lord’s command to go get the brass plates from Laban, Nephi, without hesitation, says “I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded.”  Nephi is an example of someone who watched for one hour with the Savior.  He is an example to all of us.
There is one more person that I must mention who serves as a great example to me in how to wait upon the Lord and that is my dear wife, Daniele.  When she was sixteen, she entered the waters of baptism because she had gained a testimony of the gospel.  I was fortunate enough to be there for that baptism.  Being a teenager and a member of the Church in France is not always an easy path to follow.  You have very few friends who believe as you do; who have the same morals as you do; who understand you and your choices.  Some fall away and some are strengthened in these circumstances.  Daniele was one of those who found a way to strengthen herself in her testimony.  Shortly after being baptized, she made a commitment to the Lord to serve Him.  She gave up much of her social life to do so.  She trusted the in the Lord that He would take care of her and strengthen her and lead her to a future that would support her in her faith.  I suppose that that is where I entered the picture.  Since that time, I have watched her grow in the gospel.  I have watched her become a rock and a foundation to our family and to others.  The Lord has truly blessed her because of her commitment to serve Him.  I love her and look up to her as an example of this principle.
Elder Hales says: Every one of us is more beloved to the Lord than we can possibly understand or imagine.  Let us therefore be kinder to one another and kinder toward ourselves.  Let us remember that as we wait upon the Lord, we are becoming saints through His atonement … submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon us, even as a child doth submit to his father.
The other day during the Women’s Conference at BYU, … yes I go to girl’s camp every year and I attend Women’s Conference in a work capacity … Elder Anderson said that it will not be the physical trials that challenge us the most but it will be the spiritual trials that will challenge us the most.  He said there is a war going on for our souls with Satan on one side trying to claim us as his own and Christ on the other side.  We can overcome those spiritual trials by committing ourselves to the Savior; by serving Him; by waiting upon Him.  As we come unto Christ, he will come unto us.  He will lift us up.  He will stand by our side.  He will strengthen us.  He will give us the needed armor to withstand the fiery darts of the adversary.
The Savior set the perfect example for us when He, in the Garden of Gethsemane, alone and suffering, shrank not to drink the bitter cup and said unto His Father, “Thy will be done.”  I pray that we may devote our lives to Him and that we will watch with Him by waiting upon Him.
In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

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